Here's my 'wallet' photo of my children.
It's not kept in my wallet.
Its kept on my cloud account and accessed via my phone, tablet, laptop, desktop or TV.
It wont' degrade or get lost. I can access it on any device, I can show it or share it with anybody, anywhere. This photo was actually shared with my family, on the other side of the world, a few moments after it was taken. The use of technology has improved this parental experience for me.
As a working parent I miss out on a significant section of my children's day. My solution to this was simple. When I got home I talked to my children about their day. If they were not forthcoming with information I could simply ask their mother and she could fill me in on everything I had missed during their day. I could then engage my children in a conversation knowing that I already had some idea about what they had done, who with and how it went.
My children also attend pre-school a number of days a week. One of the main reasons we selected that particular preschool was because the school recognised the parental instinct of wanting to be engaged in the learning of their child.
The preschool has a simple set up of a desktop computer linked to a large screen monitor in each classroom. At the end of the day when parents collect their child they can view a PowerPoint presentation including many photos and short descriptions of what the children in that room have experienced during the day.
This simple sharing of information allows me to follow my children's learning and get a snapshot of what they have experienced. I can then discuss their day with them, armed with some knowledge, in order to engage them in conversation.
Eight weeks ago my eldest son started Primary School and this changed.
I now have no idea what my son is doing between 9am-3pm.
It is left to me to try and tease out of him what he has done, what he has learned, who he was with, what he experienced. I can not draw upon any knowledge that I have of what he has done because I have been supplied with virtually nothing.
I do not like this. I do not want to be excluded from his learning. I want to be engaged as the significant educator in my sons life, but I am not being given the opportunity to do so. During this eight week period I feel as if I am being passively discouraged as a parent to be engaged in his learning at school.
I should add at this point that I do not mean to monitor the teaching in his classroom with regards to its quality. I trust his teachers and the school, I just want to be engaged.
So, how can I as a teacher encourage the engagement of parents of children within my classes?
I believe the answer is to make the learning more transparent and share the experience with them in real-time.
Social media tools such as Twitter allow me to do this. I can very quickly take a photo and post it to a class twitter account. I can make a quick 140 character post describing what we have experienced in the last half an hour. Twitter allows private accounts where followers have to request permission from the account owner. This feature, accompanied by parental permission, could then be used to ensure the security of access to the account.
I recognise that some parents may not take advantage of this level of engagement, but if my son's school offered me the opportunity to follow HIS class twitter account and receive regular notifications about what they were doing I would bite their hand off.